he wanted me to go into surgery for my biopsy as soon as possible which happened to be on March 14th two days after that appointment. I was a bit nervous for my first real surgery. We waited for a long while and let me tell you the attire really isn't much and uncomfortable, but the socks were warm! I joked with my parents while we waited I said "Hey, maybe if it's cancer I could atleast get a scholarship!" They laughed, but they told me not to joke like that cause what if? Well, I already assumed it was and was trying to make conversation. There are many victims that are very sensitive about the subject, but for me I like to joke about it around others. I won't make fun of anyone else's cancer but me it helps get over the pain that still lingers.
When I woke up from my almost three hour surgery I was feeling really good, but barely able to open my eyes. Whoever was taking care of me at the time, had me in a separate room with a oxygen mask on my mouth (that was pretty cool). Before I really woke up I remember hearing a bunch of women gossiping, then they realized I was opening my eyes and supposedly wheeled me out, but I truly don't remember moving anywhere. I was starting to feel a little nauseated and asked for a bucket, but mom and dad came in and told me it would be better if we got home right away. I didn't want to go anywhere I was feeling sick and didn't want to puke on anybody's shoes! They let me sit for a while and urged me to eat a cracker I ate two bird bites and couldn't seem to get it down, I had help getting dressed and my parents wheeled me out, while I puked in a bag. On the ride home I got a bit dizzy and even more sick so I puked once again. Finally when I got home and fell on my bed utterly exhausted, and yes I did puke again. I slept very little becuase I felt too sick to even sleep. I remember my friend and co-worker Chris had come over and gave me some flowers, Cheeze-its, and a funny shirt. I really did't care what I looked like which was of course was a mess, but he was a saint to come over.
Later that night my mom tried to get me to eat almost anything, but I couldn't get anything down before puking my guts out. I gave up and tried to sleep again. The next morning was rough to get me ready to go back to the doctors to get my drain removed. That was a relief to have out of my body. The rest of the week I relaxed and ate all kinds of food. The following week I had my wound check and was doing really well.
On the March 22nd I got my stitches out finally and my doctor gave me another serious talk. By talk I mean "The" talk where the doctor tells you that you indeed have cancer. I was expecting it, my mom started crying and the doctor looked at me again and asked "Do you understand what I just told you?" of course I understood, I knew the news was coming sooner or later so at that moment it really didn't phase me. He told me it was called Neuroendocrine Carcinoma. I thought to myself,"Okay, I have cancer I am going to be one of those people who can handle it and come out stronger than ever". That afternoon I told my family, they were all a bit shocked and yet I wasn't. I was the one that had it together from hearing the news. I knew they had felt bad for me, but I felt worse that they felt that bad.
March 23rd, I saw my specialized doctor to go over my future plans to fight my cancer.
Dr. Hunter was a nice older man, but I was a bit nervous about his plans.
Dear Tiffany,
ReplyDeleteIt is absolutely unfair of you to update so infrequently. I thoroughly enjoy your writing and I would love to hear the rest of this story. But it is good to hear from you again, It has been quite a while.
Your friend, Luke